A WOMAN GOT MOCKED BY HER PARTNER, ABOUT HER LEG HAIRS

موقع أيام نيوز

lifted up the bottom of my dress revealing my legs and exclaimed “She isn’t swimming today cause she is as hairy as a fucking bear!” I grabbed my dress and pulled it back down quite embarrassed, and shot him a very angry look. There was a few chuckles but mostly awkward silence. I was MORTIFIED. He knows how self conscious I am about this.”
Then she responded as she mocked his bald patch, which made him mad and left. “In my anger I then bit back and said “Maybe we can transplant some of my leg hair to that nice bald patch you’ve been brewing?!” This was also met with a few chuckles followed by even more awkward silence. My partner then stormed off from the pool and went inside to get dry. He got changed into his dry clothes and came out and said that we’re leaving. I felt really bad, especially for the hosts so I apologised to them and said they could keep my salad bowls I had bought over.”

She then concluded her story, and wanted for advice from Redditors. “My partner and I have never spoken about his hair-loss before. When I said this I did know that it likely bothered him being that I found photos on his phone of him taking pictures of the top of his head (where the hair loss has started) I just felt it was hypocritical that he could create that whole situation, and my insecurity wasn’t off limits but his is? I know I didn’t handle myself the best here.”
Here are some of the comments from Redditors.
“NTA. Why are you dating someone who intentionally publicly humiliates you?”
“If he keeps acting pissy and “hurt” about the bald spot comment, let him know that’s EXACTLY how he made you feel when he lifted up your dress and showed your hairy legs to EVERYONE. Not only that, but how he knows you’re so self conscious about it and still did it, and then had the absolute audacity to get pissed off at YOU when all you did was a more minor version of the insult he did to you. Remind him that his lack of hair makes him feel the same way you feel about your excess hair, it is a part of your body that you have little control over but wish you did, and it makes you very self conscious.”

“NTA. Your partner lost all expectation of courtesy when he pulled that stunt. Does he do that sort of thing often? At the least this warrants a serious chat.”
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