What happens if you are in love with a married man?

4. You could be blamed for ruining a family

If the wife knows what happened between you and your husband, then their marriage may be over. Your wife and children will likely blame you for ruining their marriage. This will do huge damage, almost like an attack on your character and worth as a person. No matter who you are, this will definitely affect you.

5. You’ll be waiting around for a long time

Whether he decides to leave his wife for you or not is not the point; the point is whether or not you want to wait around to find out.

There are seven billion people on the planet. Is this guy really worth waiting for? What about his ethics and morals? He’s ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛɪɴɢ on his wife? What’s to stop him from doing the same thing to you?

6. You’re missing out on meeting a single man

There are no two ways: He probably won’t leave his wife for you, which would make you another woman. While most women will tell you they would never allow themselves to be another woman, a surprising number of women will think he will change his mind about his wife

7. He won’t support you when you need it

The great thing about being in a committed relationship is that when you’re going through a tough time, you can rely on your partner for support.

But this married man probably doesn’t have the capability to support you wholeheartedly when he has kids and a wife to look after.

He can’t always be there for you. He probably only sees you sporadically as it is

8. You are short term

As long as you’re considered “ʜᴀᴠɪɴɢ ᴀɴ ᴀғғᴀɪʀ,” then I’m sorry to say, but it probably won’t last long. A real kicker? The longer the affair lasts, the less likely he is to bite the bullet and divorce his wife to stay with you.

9. It is tiring to hide.

Having to keep your relationship secret can attack your self-esteem and cause you to miss out on the wonderful aspects of a relationship. Walking freely and radiantly around the world together can fill you with the light of life