Husband-to-Be Wants Everyone at Their Wedding Ceremony to Know His Fiancée Is Not ‘Pure’
As the wedding day approached a woman had her heart set on wearing a pristine white gown. However her husbandtobes reaction was anything but expected. When she surprised him with the white dress he demanded she wear red instead. Read on to uncover the truth behind his shocking demand.
In November 2022 an anonymous poster turned to Reddits Off My Chest forum to share her story. She began by revealing that she had been in a relationship with her fiancé for six years and had been engaged for the past eight months. While she took the lead in most of the wedding planning her fiancé whom she referred to as Ryan occasionally offered his input.
About a month ago in October Ryan surprised OP with an unexpected request. He mentioned that he had been discussing wedding plans with some of his coworkers and suggested that she should not wear a white dress.
Ryans proposition puzzled the original poster but she brushed it off for the time being associating the suggestion with his artistic nature. She initially thought it might be related to how the wedding photos would turn out or some other creative consideration.
In the aftermath of the argument she couldnt help but be disgusted by his actions causing her to seriously reconsider their future together.
However OP remained steadfast in her desire to wear white and conveyed this to him. Ryans reaction seemed to be a mix of annoyance but he ultimately let the matter drop.
What Happened after the Woman Bought a White Wedding Dress?
Two weeks before their wedding the woman finally decided to purchase her wedding dress setting off a storm of controversy with her fiancé. He was noticeably irritated and insisted on seeing the dress but she firmly declined wanting to maintain the element of surprise for their special day.
Pushing further he inquired about the dresss color and when she disclosed it was white his reaction was nothing short of explosive. The insistence on a white wedding dress bewildered her as it was a conventional choice for brides. Perplexed by his preference for red she probed deeper only to have Ryan unveil a shocking belief in his view brides should only wear white if they were pure.
Offering some context their relationship had begun when OP was 21 with her fiancé just turning 20. He had been a virgin when they met and she had a single previous partner her high school