Husband-to-Be Wants Everyone at Their Wedding Ceremony to Know His Fiancée Is Not ‘Pure’

sweetheart of four years. While initial insecurities had plagued their relationship they seemed to move past themuntil that moment.
In a desperate attempt to win the woman over to his viewpoint Ryan sought support from his mother but she ended up siding with her. In a tense confrontation Ryan his mother and OP argued vigorously in their living room about the symbolism tied to her chosen dress.
Even his mother pointed out that he was no longer a virgin suggesting he should also wear red. The confrontation reduced Ryan to tears yet he remained steadfast in his belief that her wearing white would deceive their wedding guests and insisted that the standards were somehow different for men.
What Did the Woman Decide?
The subsequent turn of events shook OPs faith in the idea of marrying Ryan. In the aftermath of the argument she couldnt help but be disgusted by his actions causing her to seriously reconsider their future together.
What confounded her even more was the fact that Ryan who wasnt particularly religious was fixated on her past especially her loss of virginity at 18 a time long before they had even met. This revelation weighed heavily on her leading her to vent her frustrations openly seeking understanding from anyone who would listen.
In a later update on the Dating Advice forum dated November 24 2022 OP found herself in an entirely new predicament. Having broken off her engagement in her late 20s she faced her first date in six years at the time.
Her first date in several years was set at a lovely waterfront seafood restaurant in North Carolina in November and she was unsure what attire would be
After reading this story do you concur with OPs choice to end her engagement or would you have chosen differently?